Tuesday, 31 December 2013

真相『九一三』事件考证

都说我超迷中国现代史了。。。这本不只是中国现代史的一部分那么简单。它牵涉的还是考据史实,纠正错误,还原真实历史,揭开疑团,澄清当事人争议等等。。。

对于林彪,我总算可以认认真真的认识这个传奇人物了。这本书参考了许多其他学者关于林彪和林彪与毛泽东的种种恩恩怨怨。老实说,看完了整本书,有股冲动想沿着“九一三”事件去继续探讨林彪这个人物的点点滴滴。毕竟,林彪这个人物奇特的很离谱。。。从生活习惯到思想,阴谋。。。这个人的点点滴滴还真的不是一本书可以讲完。。。有趣,真有趣。。。

只可惜。。。作者虽然很努力的在分析整件事的来龙去脉;但,个人就是觉得很不够喉。读完了整本书,还是觉得还有好多疑问都没解决。可能个人对于林彪真的了解不深。因此,实在没办法单靠一本书就能够解开种种疑团。

总结来说,这是本不错的书。想不到,中国现代史还有那么一段值得慎思的史实。10分满分,我个人打上7分。研究林彪,应该会是2014年一个蛮重要的环节。只能希望明年的今天,种种谜团都揭开了。。。加油!!!

Thursday, 26 December 2013

1949-2009 中国表情

中国现代史(尤其是延伸到近代的)一直是我的最爱。总觉得中国作者不太敢写这类书籍。所以,市面上不是封建时代的历史,就是辛亥革命的那一段。1949-2009 年,这60年的近代史应该很精彩。所以,期待这本书很久了。。。

首选,先提一提这本书的编写手法。虽然这是本历史书,但作者很明显的运用别于一般历史作者的手法。整本书的重点很多时候都放在百姓的日常生活上。举个例子,每一个文字叙述的历史线索都会附带着各个不同历史时期所展现出来的人们表情。二者两相补充,让读者更能感受和领会那一段历史。所以,整个阅读过程就在严肃中带着各式各样的心情完成的。不信?看一看作者如何分类各个年代吧:

欢乐(1949-1954, 激昂(1955-1959), 严肃(1960-1964),躁狂(1965-1969),苦闷(1970-1974),悲喜(1975-1979),惊讶(1980-1984),寻觅(1985-1989),沉稳(1990-1994),努力(1995-1999),期望(2000-2004),自信(2005-2009)。

有趣吧?单单作者的这一份用心,评分方面已经值得满分10分了。。。整体来说,这是一本读起来完全不会沉闷;而且还挺有趣的历史书籍。赞!赞!赞!

Thursday, 19 December 2013

给大忙人看的历史常识

好久没看历史书籍了。刚好年尾了;该忙的也忙完了,是时候轻松一下,读一读自己的至爱了。。。事先说明,本人并不是个大忙人。但,本人不介意以大忙人的身份去探讨这一本书籍。选择这本书主要还是它的主题。既然作者的目标是大忙人,那这本书肯定不严肃。都说了,年尾了。。。是时候轻松一下了。。。

结果嘞?嗯,还行。。。就是一堆不需要绞尽脑汁和大动脑筋也搞得懂的知识。有趣的是,里头的历史知识我还真的不太懂。基本上,有80%还是我从没听过的。因此,整本书真的让我获益不浅。

但是,获益不浅的背后却也隐藏着一些值得慎思的地方。这类书籍很少人编写。到底是因为懂得人不多,有兴趣知道的人不多,还是根本就没有懂的必要?老实说,我个人获益的背后还真的引发了种种疑问。说到底,我需要这些知识吗???当然,活到老,学到老。但是,基于个人知识非常有限(还有一大堆新鲜事物等着我去思考)。。。这本书轻轻松松读一读还行;认真看待倒是有点那个。。。

无论如何,都说想轻松一下。因此,浪费一点时间读一些有趣的读物还是ok的。评分方面,有得有失,就给个5分吧!

Friday, 13 December 2013

购屋风水指南(室内篇)

最近在搬屋。。。所以,风水的书籍还真的让我爱不释手。不是说迷信,就是求个平安让一家大小可以健健康康生活在一起。所以,只要不难做的,何乐而不为呢?

看了几本外籍书籍,是时候支持一下本地书籍了。Joey Yap这个家喻户晓的名字对于马来西亚的读者和风水粉丝来说肯定不陌生。这回,叶师傅还真的让我看到(读到)风水的精髓和整个风水的逻辑。所以,比起前几本,这一本风水书籍很明显更能说服我。嗯。。。谁说外国的月亮总是圆的?

叶师父这本书好就好在他能很坦荡荡的揭露一些风水精髓。然后,他又很巧妙的把一些完全不风水的风水论(第六章:在风水中,有什么是不重要的)一一点评。(原来你我所深信不疑的一些理论都是胡说八道!!!)过后,里面也附带了无数个图案和例子。读者只要专心读一读,肯定能明白整本书的概念。简单来说,如果读者的目的如我(就是想确认一下我的风水师有多值得信赖???),那这一本书的确是起到了它的作用。

唯一的小缺点。。。这本书的自我广告也太多了吧。。。当然,我明白作者的用意。老实说,如果作者是我,我也会依样葫芦的把自己推销出去。但,站在读者的立场;除非读者真的想把风水当成事业来经营,不然那些广告的轰炸就只能是一种纯轰炸罢了。。。

当然,有赞肯定有贬。因此,10分满分;基于个人的满意度(至少解决了我好多疑问),我打了个8分。如果不是被那堆广告给轰炸到,我还真的考虑给足满分。毕竟,这本书写的真不错。而且,这其实是一本翻译书。一本翻译书能够翻译到读者完全没察觉它的翻译性质,那这本书还真的没什么好弹了。整体来说,就是赞!MALAYSIA BOLEH

Sunday, 8 December 2013

只有一个华为

【华为真相】的震撼力一直影响着我。。。因此,第一次在『恒河网』看到这本书时,我就当机立断的买下了。。。

结果呢。。。可能是【华为真相】太精彩了。这一本【只有一个华为】好像显得平淡了些。。。又或者华为这几年太顺风顺水了。所以,作者除了继续歌颂任正非,也只能选择继续赞扬他了。。。

这类书籍可能在十年前还容易引起我的共鸣。但,随着年龄的增长,懂得东西越多,很多企业管理的书籍已经不再是我的那杯茶。别误会,我不是说作者写的不好;只是这类内容开始和我渐行渐远。。。因此,10分满分,我选择给予5分。这5分纯粹是个人因数。书整体上还是不错的。对于不了解华为的读者来说,可能还是上上佳作。对于我,是时候换一换口味了。。。

Wednesday, 4 December 2013

挡不住的好运

又是一本风水书籍???呵呵,放心;连读了两本风水书,我也腻了。。。这回,来点另类风水书籍。跟风水有一丁点的关系,但比风水更高一层的人为“好运”。。。

会买这本书,主要还是受到出版社【平凡企管顾问】的影响。看了【借运借势】和几本李民杰的力作,我还真的开始喜欢上了这班家伙的作品。这回,选了本比较不一样的书籍。皆因这本书籍的主题介于商业,心里与风水命理之间。简单来说,恰好就是综合李民杰和李宗驹的所有论点。因此,应该很特别吧。。。

结果,读完过后还真的超反效果的。其实,读到一半,我已经想放弃了。可能这类书籍我看了不少。里面的论点都是些旧菜。作者顶多也只是将它炒一炒,炒热罢了。老实说,书名上的所谓“好运”非常误导读者。如果读者错把这本书当作命理书籍来研究(像一开始的我),那只能怪作者蓄意欺骗咯。。。

基于个人有点受骗的感觉,这本书顶多只值4分。这本书对于没接触过其他类似书籍的读者来说,肯定是一本上上之作。但,对于我而言,这本书简直就是“秘密”的山寨版。整体的感觉就是很“秘密”。就算作者再努力呈现一些别的论点(还是旧菜一碟),我个人就是找不到我要的火花。好失望的一本书。。。

Sunday, 1 December 2013

居家风水

看风水书看上瘾了。。。这回,再接再厉,再来一本到位点的风水书籍。。。结果,还真的是很“两极化”,呵呵!

如果说上一本一开始就很吸引人,这一本则一开始就挺闷的。。。如果说上一本读着读着会越读越模糊(多谢作者巧妙的隐藏),这一本倒是恰恰相反:好像是越读越清晰!!!整体上,这一本比较不隐瞒。不只不隐瞒,作者还写多了(“多余”的“多”)。因此,上一本如果不完整,这一本肯定是太花巧了。。。可能,这就是风水这个行业的必然趋势。作者肯定不满足于在书上传授秘笈。更多时候,风水师傅就是想亲自在你我面前展现他的才华。

如果上一本值个6分,这一本肯定也值6分。。。其实,只要把上一本的理论再加上这一本的实例联合起来,一本完整的风水书就形成了。。。当然,世事不可能如此完美。也因为不完美,它才值得我们去探讨。。。期待下一本更好的风水书吧。。。

Thursday, 28 November 2013

借运借势

最近疯了。。。上一轮来了本医学书,这回回归大自然。。。风水,命理的书籍也登场了,呵呵。。。

李宗驹这本书是我在书局翻一翻就爱上的书籍。它是一本把风水逻辑化的作品。因此,读者很容易接纳作者的一系列“借运借势”的手段。书中一开头关于【风水创富系统】来源自古人“一命,二运,三风水,四积阴德,五读书”的概念足于显示作者很逻辑性的思维。再来,作者在每一个理论上都给出许多生活中很实际的例子。比方说,针对白手起家和富二代如何在循环图把自己的角色摆错在不对的位置上,就是一个很有说服力的例子。风水能够做到逻辑性肯定更能凸显它的说服力。而且,整本书就是有那一些你我都很熟悉的例子。。。因此,李宗驹这本书真的很容易引起读者的共鸣。。。

但是,读着读着,好像越读越模糊。。。作者好像讲的很清晰,但却总是漏掉一些什么似的。。。最后,当整本书都啃完了之后。。。顿然发觉;哈,好像上当了!!!作者真的是一个很厉害的写作者。书的内容就是能轻轻松松的带我们进入主题。但,关键的时候,作者又很恰当的隐藏一些玄机。结果,读者虽然觉得好像吸收了很多,但更多的是纯粹的理论。书后尾的一小段就很明显:“如果你对人生要求的不多,那么第一个操作层次应该是你的选择。。。如果你对于人生有一些特殊要求,那么你就要考虑第二层次的操作方法。。。当然,如果你对于人生要求更多,那么学习八字或我的【风水创富系统】可能就是你必须考虑的方式。。。”很明显吧?呵呵。。。

基于以上的褒贬,我不得不在这本一开始就让我一见钟情的书籍上大打折扣。。。10分满分,就给个6分吧。。。作者写作的功力真的一流。但,诚意度,个人倒是蛮怀疑的。。。整体来说,这是本值得探讨的书籍。虽不完整,但至少足于提醒一般民众关于什么才是真正的风水。老实说,这一点,作者是做到了。赞!

Tuesday, 26 November 2013

不被医生杀死的47心得

朋友老刘看到我拿这本书,简直就是吓到了。。。这类书我好像第一次看(老了,越来越怕死了,哈哈)。。。因此,老刘还以为我病了。在此,借这个机会跟大家交代一下:本人除了肠胃问题惯性的到访以外,其它一切安好。谢谢大家的关心。。。读这本书纯粹是想补充关于养生的心得。。。想活久一点,就那么简单,呵呵。。。

这还真的是一本很奇特的书。作者非常有勇气的揭露很多作者所谓的心得和真相。基于本人对于医药领域并不是很在行,因此我很难去判断书里的真伪。好彩,家里有两个未来医生(侄儿)。因此,还真的要和他俩求证一下。。。

抛开真假的问题。。。再假设这本书的论点是正确的。。。哇!这还真的是医学界的一大批判!!!诚如书中所说。。。这是一本“你去医院之前非读不可的救命书”。。。读者们必须放下无谓的惯性念头,以免错失接受另类观点的可能性。我个人还蛮能接受作者的几个论点。比方说,“癌症是误诊最多的疾病”“早睡早起的健康法”“癌症越治疗越短命,放着不管越好”等等都是我个人非常推崇的说法。恰巧娱乐圈高凌风高大哥就是一个活生生的例子。高大哥选择不治疗的手法一开始就得到各界的关注。诚如作者所说,治疗只能给身体带来无谓和多余的痛楚。关于治疗的真正意义有时还真的太肤浅了。。。

这本书肯定会引起很多人的热烈讨论。论坛上已经不断的有两群人在互相攻击。。。我的看法是,预防始终胜过治疗。因此,作者第五章(健康活到百岁的生活心得)真的值得大家关注。评分方面,如果书里所说的是事实,作者的这本勇气之作真的值得满分。但,基于个人还想向两个侄儿求证,10分满分暂且给个7分。希望求证后能帮作者平反,让这本书帮助更多的人获得健康。。。


Sunday, 24 November 2013

The Little Book of Trading: Trend Following Strategy for Big Winnings

After so many years, Michael Covel's book remains one of my favorite. So far, this is the only book that remains on my shelf for quite some time. Well, just a little book... and another trend following stuff... so, never really eagerly wanna touch it, LOL... After all, I do not want to have repetition on the same theory again and again… However, a buddy thought I love this type of books and it was a special gift from him after some special assignment…

End up… surprisingly… it is still my cup of tea. I thought there is little new under the sun. But, I ended up having few ah-ha moments as below that really inspired me:

Many people over the years trading with scared money – meaning they would make decisions on the value of money to them and not follow the exact rules of their trading plan.

This is not saying that you want to put all your eggs in one basket, that’s not the concept, but the idea is that your weightings of the markets don’t need to be uniform.

Trend following trading is not about being a hero. Said another way, it is not about being right in your opinion, but rather about winning in the long run.

Even though Harding has been very frank, there is some reticence. He knows talking too much about trend following is a retrograde step for his business’s commercial prospects. Why would a competitive man want to encourage you to become the next millionaire? He doesn’t have a mission to spread trend following wisdom or propagate this style of trading. He is not interested in sponsoring academic trend following courses or making the world a better place filled with wealthy trend following traders. He is entrepreneurial man who, after all, wants to win.

The markets are ever evolving. But, certain criteria are forever constant. Changing markets is what we make money off of… If you’ve done your trend trading homework properly, you don’t have to adapt your trend following nonstop to whatever is perceived as world change.

After so many years in this industry… if certain theories still inspires traders (me and my group of friends particularly), the said theories must have its logic and sense behind it. I am with the author in this case since I had been practicing it since day one… Having said that, I find no reason not to rate this book as high as 10/10. After all, stories in the book are real adventures and real insight experiences from experts that had survived for more than a decade. I know readers used to have doubts whether Michael Covel himself is a real trader. In my humble opinions; good traders may not be writing books. So, there is nothing wrong for a good author not to trades… Most important thing is… can we find some gem in this book that inspires us? I think Michael Covel achieve that even though it is just a “little book”… Thumbs up for the hard works!!! Well done…

Wednesday, 20 November 2013

Portfolio Optimization and Performance Analysis

This could be a very boring book thanks to the complex formulas throughout the book… At the end… yes, it is. It is a real boring book… Tons of formulas and tons of concepts that I might not need it in the first place, LOL…

In fact, I was forced to read on this book by a friend (Ok, potential customer, LOL). I was asked to refer to this book on how to present my trading ideas in a proper way. Gosh… I am backed to academic for a wrong reason. Hey; I thought my end results more important??? Well, people love to have this type of so called “proper” presentation. In real world, how much proper stuff ended up in profitable manners? Hmm...Food for thoughts today…

Having said that… I found myself lost when I am trying to rate this book. This could be a very good book or very bad book depends on a reader’s intention in exploring this book. As mentioned above, I was forced to read this book in the first place. As such, I could not find anything great inside this book. So, allow me to skip in rating this book. I think I am not the appropriate person to judge it. The only thing I know about this book is… this is a real boring book!!! LOL… 

Friday, 15 November 2013

Naked Forex: High-Probability Techniques for Trading Without Indicators

The title of this book is very interesting. Besides, there are free stuff (trading software and video tutorial). As such, since I am lack of investment books on my shelf... I guess this is the right time to turn my attention to this book...

End up… Gosh! What a disappointed book! There is little new under the sun. “Kangaroo tails”, “big shadows”, “ladder exits” and whatever names that are given by the author are just new names to replace the same ideas that existed long time ago. In fact, those new names are created to emphasize that there is a new concept, namely “naked trading”. Newbies may find it amazing. But, old and bold players know that those stuff are available for free everywhere in the internet. In fact, the definition of “naked trading” is kind of misleading too. The author intends to remove all indicators, so that a “naked” chart is available for readers to interpret. At the end, what are the differences if those indicators are replaced by patterns of charting? If “price” is the key, I humbly think that we need nothing except the “price”!!! Naked Trading? More like a disguised “naked trading”!!!


Furthermore, free stuff (trading software and video tutorial) as mentioned are very annoying at the end. I did surf through and found out that those are just some courses by the author and there is really nothing special in it. Now, I doubt whether the author has time to trade FX… In between running his website and surfing, I think he got no time to implement his “sophisticated” method in trading…

Having said that, this book still offers some nice stuff… Putting aside those sophisticated new name (on old concepts), most of the concepts discussed actually proven to work more often than they do not. Besides, the author did put his effort to illustrate in details on every setup. That in itself makes this a worthwhile book for those who are new to trading. As for me, I just could not accept those new names and the “misleading” definition of “naked trading”. As such, this book does not deserve a place on my shelf and I am going to rate it at 1/10 because of that.  What a disappointment… 

Friday, 8 November 2013

Tactical Trend Trading

This book was recommended by a senior of mine (Someone I very much adore and respect for his experiences in trading). However, I am very disappointed from the very first chapter. Well, this is a more of a book that combines tons of stuff that you and I can find in other author’s books. For example, Michael Covel’s “TrendFollowing” is the better book to explore. Even my friend’s books on "Turtles" are perhaps the better option. Overall, I do not read anything “extra” except some sort of repetition that trend traders are very familiar with… As a conclusion, I humbly think that I had wasted plenty of time in reading this book. 

Anyway, I did my best to finish up the whole book in a quick way. Well, for newbies who had not read Michael Covel or Curtis Faith’s books, this book may serve as a good introduction. Since I humbly do not consider myself as a newbie, I am still puzzled why my senior highly recommended this book to me. Perhaps, there is a hidden gem for me to dig out in the first place. Unfortunately, I failed to do so at the end…

This book was shipped out immediately after I finish the last page. Having said that… I am going to rate it at 2/10. I appreciate the author’s hard work in presenting his idea. However, I really do not see anything “extra” in this book compares to those that I mentioned above. I guess I made a mistake by parting my money with this book in the first place. Ding, ding, ding… next, please… LOL.

Monday, 4 November 2013

专业主义

熟悉我的人应该都知道,这类书籍绝对不是我的那杯茶。第一,工商管理的东西一直不是我很需要的。第二,超讨厌翻译的书籍。英文去中文已经不太有好感。日文去中文???我的天呀!!!

但是,世事无绝对。。。这回,破例了。理由很简单。。。第一,这是一本马云,史玉柱都推荐的书籍。。。第二,各大商业论坛都在讨论这本书。。。第三,翻一翻前几页,还真的挺有意思的。单单几个“专业”和“专家”的定义就挺吸引我的:

1.专家的词源本是‘profes’,意思是‘向上帝发誓,以此为职业’。

2.对能够称之为专家的人而言,是不存在退休这个概念的。

3.无论如何完善教育制度,如何增加报酬和改善福利,也不会产生大批的专家。只有纪律,才能培养出专家。

4. 推动未来世界运转的,是个体之间的竞争,而不再是国家之间或企业之间的竞争。

结果,感觉挺好的。好在哪里呢?好在里头有很多我做着却未必懂的道理。好在里头有一些我很不屑但其实很有道理的道理。。。简单来说,的确是一本好书。。。但是,老实说,个人“共鸣”真的不是很多。这纯粹是个人问题(与作者无关)。对于工商管理,我始终是不太热衷。总觉得这是高层管理员的书籍(我超讨厌管人的!)。而且,在这个讯息与网络的时代,“人”还管吗?

基于个人的癖好,这本书在我的私人图书馆不会有太高的评价。10分满分,顶多只值得个6分!这本书个人虽不太喜欢,但它在我的私人图书馆里还是有个位置的。理由是,这类书籍很像我们汽车上的后备轮胎。在一个投机者的世界里,这个后备很少发挥它的作用。但,天有不测之风云,“人”有旦夕祸福(还是要“管”人???)。。。因此,我坚信总会有用到它的一天。所以,让它暂时好好躺在我的书架上吧。。。

Wednesday, 30 October 2013

时局的生意:霍英东自述

一连看了几本个人偶像的书籍(史玉柱,马云)。。。怎能漏了霍英东呢?霍英东在我心目中的位置其实是排在第一位的!我一直都视霍先生为我的奋斗目标。个人的胆量与风险承受能力其实就是受到霍先生的影响。。。基本上霍先生喜欢的(比如说足球,还有那本霍先生和我永远都不会认同的【厚黑学】)都是我有兴趣的。霍先生对于高尔夫球的见解,从我接触霍先生的第一本自传开始就一直烙印在我心底。大意是。。。这是个非常自律的运动。没有裁判,没有直接对手。每个人要很自律并且很坦诚的打完整场球。。。多么精彩的一句话。

很有幸,这回终于找到霍先生的自述。因此,很多关于霍先生的点点滴滴可以再次在这本书籍里求证。此外,霍老先生的多句经典语录(老实说,熟到不能熟了)也在此书中出现。。。不过;读着,读着,怎么越读越熟悉?结果,谜底终于在最后几页揭晓了。。。哈哈,原来我在很早以前就读过这本书。这一本其实是新版本。(大陆第一版~~~因此,还换了新书名呢!)好久以前读的那一本叫【霍英东传】(香港版)。这一本其实是比较原汁原味的自述版本。但,内容大致上一样。因此,虽然相隔多年,就是有种很熟悉的感觉。。。

虽是旧书从读,但感觉上还是挺好的。至少,当年为什么那么沉迷于霍老先生的原因到现在还成立。这一回从读,我还是觉得霍先生的一生真的很令我敬佩。整个从读过程,虽然充斥着“似曾相识”的感觉;不只不郁闷,还觉得津津有味呢。因此,10分满分我给足10分。基于个人对霍老先生的爱戴,评分方面可能不太中肯。但,看完了这本自述,在翻一翻旧的【霍英东传】;真的觉得原汁原味的感觉更好!好书一本,推荐再推荐!

Friday, 25 October 2013

谁认识马云II (危机中的救赎)

马总。。。关于马总的书籍,总是爱不释手。这一本更神;因为这是一本(好像也是第一本)探讨马总困境的书籍。马总强势的背后原来隐藏着许许多多困扰。难怪马总最近老是说他累了。哈,如果是我,不止累了;肯定早就垮了!!!


恰好,最近阿里巴巴不在港股上市的新闻刚刚浮上台面。。。因此这本书的探讨正好解决了我的许多困惑!老实说,作者真的很专业。里头的每一则分析简直就是精辟。所以,这是本10分满分的书籍!赞!

看完整本书,老实说还挺感慨的。。。马总的起起落落恰恰提供我们一个很好的借镜。俗语说,创业难,守业更难。当中的得失也只有当事人能够理解。只能这么说,本人对于马总本来就十分敬佩。看完这本书,马总在我心目中越来越接近“神”的位置。整本书刚好反映了马总整个困局以及马云精神的应对。赞!

其实,出版社真的应该出版更多这类的书籍。诚如偶像史总所说的:危机中的领悟和应对始终是最靠谱的。毕竟,成功的方法虽然很多种,但失败的可能性就那几个。所以,与其把时间花在大圆满式的虚假颂歌书籍,我觉得这类书籍更能起到它的实际作用。作者【谁认识马云】能够畅销30万册一定有它的理由。这本续集肯定也能突破上一本的销售量。谢谢作者无私的奉献!

Sunday, 20 October 2013

曾仕强评胡雪岩

曾仕强老师。。。老实说,我并不熟悉。但是,通常一个节目能够做得那么火红,总有它的道理吧。于是,我就在“名牌效应”的情况下买了这本书。。。


但,果真是纯粹的“名牌效应”!这本书我好像从头到尾都没办法很专心一致的细细品读。总觉得到紧要关头时,曾老师就会罗罗嗦嗦的评论一大堆我觉得是曾老师非常主观的看法。不只主观,曾老师还很容易对号入座。最后,更盲目的把中华民族赞的一塌糊涂。胡雪岩事迹流传至今的大多数都是他的传说。实际上,史料是不多的。因此,盲目的去推崇一些可能是传说的传说岂不是很误导读者?

这个节目如此火红还真的很耐人寻味。可能我一开始就接触书籍,所以感受不到曾老师所要带出的精髓。但,我真的读得很没趣。因此,10分满分,我个人不想给予任何分数。浪费了几天时间;收获不多,歪理倒是体验了不少。对于红顶商人,我始终是不太接受的。就算曾老师盲目的一再推崇,我还是觉得商人的本质不该如此。。。很失望的一本作品。。。

Monday, 14 October 2013

史玉柱自述:我的营销心得

偶像第一本唯一空开的著作。。。身为史迷的我,怎能错过呢?而且,优米网恰恰又是名制作人王利芬所创办(又是另一个偶像)。因此,对于这本书特别有感觉~~~很亲切!当年,因为王利芬而认识了『赢在中国』。。。也因为王利芬的『对话』节目,才彻彻底底的了解了史总的点点滴滴。还记得当年王老师留给史总的那句肺腑之言。。。大意是:当你做好了准备从新出发,全世界都会为你而让路。。。这本书,怎能不捧场呢?


结果是。。。可能史总的东西(包括书籍,dvd,节目等等)看了太多。因此,对于史总的确是有一定的熟悉度。所以,个人总觉得重复性质是蛮多的。但,这不是作者的错。而且,虽然有重复性,但基于个人喜爱,我还蛮乐意复习一些熟到不能再熟悉的论点。比方说,史总讲毛泽东:“十大军事原则里面有集中优势兵力,各个剿灭敌人。其实我们做企业也是这样。我们做企业能不多元化,尽量不多元化。”还有,史总“史大胆”的个性:“我们公司现在有一百多万了。我那时候胆子挺大的~ 这一百多万干脆就不要了。全部砸到广告里算了。当时我们还是穷学生。。。”细细回味,还是味道十足。。。

这本书的另一特点是。。。它把史总近年来所投资的网络游戏和银行项目都概括了进来。市面上,关于史总起起落落,或史总如何神奇般的包装广告都太多了。但,史总怎么会搞网络游戏和投资银行各个项目就很少提。毕竟,史总都说了:“这年头,咱们有微博,还见传媒吗?”其实,史总开始网络游戏的理由也挺有趣的:“我以前不管保健品的时候,上班的时间偷偷玩游戏。偶尔有人跟我过来汇报工作,别人一敲门,我就把电脑荧幕给关掉。要是下属看见老板上班时间玩游戏,多丢脸。后来我一开发游戏,我就理直气壮了。”有趣吧?哈哈。。。

基于个人对于史总的爱戴,评分方面可能有点不中肯。但,这本书我还真的挺喜欢的。就连以上的重复性我都不嫌弃,那这本书肯定是我心目中的上上佳作。10分满分,就给足满分吧。很期待优米网的其它书籍。毕竟,王老师的推荐肯定不差。是时候上衡河网订阅其他优米网的作品了。。。

史总的口述,怎能漏掉一些经典语录呢?看看吧。。。

决策完了以后,就要坚定的执行。不要经常停下来调整调整,再停下来调整调整。有时候登山有很多路。有可能你选的不是最近的,有可能远一点。但是如果你坚持走;总比那种你走了一条路,发现不是最近的,说另外一条路近,然后再下山再去登那条路,发现又不是最近的,登了一半再下来,总比哪种好。

创业的时候,究竟是做自己喜欢的,还是做市场特别有需求的?如果老板是浪漫型的,那就应该做自己喜欢的。如果老板是一个任劳任怨的,那就是做需求。

用人,他可能是70分,我可能是90分。我授权的时候,我就要忍受这20分的差距。
民营企业,初期运作,股权一定不能分散。

一个企业必须形成你的核心竞争力。如果你搞多元化,你就无法形成你的核心竞争力。

我的办公室就是我的皮箱。这是中国首穷的办公室,因为我当时也觉得自己是中国首穷。一般人再穷最多没有钱或欠点钱。我还欠了一身债。我个人资产是负2.5亿人民币。

过去十年中国著名民营企业老板进监狱的,表面上是各种原因进了监狱,其实他们有共同的问题,都是负债率过高所导致。负债率过高,资金链就免不了要出问题。资金链出了问题就会做很多违规的事。

你在高速公路上开快车。你开150迈和80迈哪个先到目的地?有可能80迈的先到目的地。因为开150迈的可能要出几次车祸。出了车祸你浪费更多的时间到达目的地。

我现在自己赚了钱开心了,但是好像也开心不起来了。反正再多几个亿,少十几个亿好像也无所谓,因为我每天股票的跌幅也是二三十亿。但我觉得带着一个团队,这个团队共同跟你致富,这个才有感觉,这个我就挺开心的。

实际上搞营销只有一个词,唯一的一个词,就是你的消费者。你把消费者研究透,你的营销方案就出来了。

你成功的时候,红眼病也多,想整你的人也多。在逆境中,这些事反倒一切都没有了。所以在逆境中,人的心情也容易好。

真正的人才很少说这句话:“我很能干”。凡是直接说我的水平很高的人,最后来看没有一个是人才,因为他都满足了嘛。还有从心理学的角度,就因为他不是人才,所以他心里面不踏实,所以他就不断要通过说自己是人才,来弥补心理上的问题。

企业制度:第一,充分体现多劳多得,少劳少得,不劳不得。第二,这个制度体现出充分授权。第三,充分体现出简单。

李嘉诚说过,投资首先是要看退出机制通畅不通畅,其次才是看收益高不高。

舍去面子,得到实在;舍去权力,得到逍遥;舍去烟酒,得到健康;企业做的事越少,事才能做的更精。

纵观人一生,总快乐=总痛苦。我们需要一颗平常心。得到快乐时,别忘形,后面有同样大的痛苦等着你呢。

何为富贵?勿需向别人折腰,则为贵;勿需向别人伸手,则为富。因此,不能以地位高低论贵,不能以财富多少论富。

努力耕好自己的田,别天天盯着人家的田。如果你羡慕马云的腰包,就该自己办个比阿里更牛的企业,而不是盯着他的腰包。

Wednesday, 9 October 2013

传奇林绍良

自传看得多,结果还是漏掉印尼首富。。。

印尼首富传奇的一生的确值得探讨。但,这本自传一开始就很扯。怎么个扯法?谈到林绍良,就难以避免的谈到印尼。于是,作者就开始扯历史。扯一扯无所谓,但作者一扯就扯到远处去。再来,扯商业。也对,林绍良毕竟是商人。但,你不能一扯就扯到现今,在扩越各个国度,然后对号入座的乱扯一番。。。真的太扯了!

作者还喜欢引用百度百科。不是不行,但太频密了。再来,里头有一大堆看似应该,却又有点无厘头的诗句。我不是不喜欢诗句。但,一本很正经的自传突然诗情画意起来了。。。真的是格格不入。。。

老实说,这本自传也不是一无是处。至少,作者胡扯的过程中也呈现出很多细节。结果是,如果读者不太熟悉亚洲区域各大事件,这本自传至少解释的够清晰。只不过,如果从自传角度来说,这本书真的不太称职。如果书名改为【林绍良和印尼历史】可能会更贴切。。。整体来说,优缺点都有。评分方面,反正优缺点都有,10分满分就给个4分吧!

Saturday, 5 October 2013

大危机(大败局之前的警世危言)

这本书的主题很吸引人。危机本身就代表着转机。尤其是,作者需要解读九位赫赫有名的中国企业家。里头有阿里巴巴的马总,个人的偶像史玉柱和柳传志,本人十分不屑的黄光裕和王传福,再加上王石,李开复,马化腾和宗庆后(最近才刚刚被人袭击砍伤)的种种事迹分析。这本书怎能不吸引人呢?当然,看这类书籍的好处是读者能动一动脑筋参与分析作者的解读。因此,我也班门弄斧的来一段。先说一说个人非常不赞同的一面吧。。。

关于马总。。。作者好大的胆子!很少人敢于那么直接的批判(误解吧?)马总。这本书肯定会遭到马总支持者的抗议。我个人也挺不赞成里头的一些分析。比如说,2003年马云谈到自己成功的秘诀:“第一,没有钱。第二,不懂技术。第三,永远不做计划。如果马云能够成功,那么80%的青年人都能成功。”作者的见解如下:回顾马云早期创业的两段失败经历,马云显然夸大了成功的机率。很难说他没有炫耀的成分。~~~针对这点,我个人是超不赞同。如果这叫夸大,我宁愿选择这叫激励。显然作者不是一个生意人。因此作者看不到企业家简化性的一面,更看不到生意人对于激励的肯定性。再来,马总当时是在接受上海电视台(对着台下无数渴望创业的年轻人)的访问,才会说出如此轰动的三不伟论。难道激励一下年轻人不行吗?难道激励不能简化一点吗?作者所说的“炫耀”也太牵强了吧?老实说,这一小段我看不出马总的夸大。反而,我看到的是作者更多的盲点。

还有,还有。。。作者说:“因为一直免费,淘宝网仍然无法找到一个清晰的盈利模式。马云就像银行的一个总管,天天数着钞票,却没有一张是属于自己的。天下没有免费的午餐,当年种下的果,终于轮到了自己品尝。”第一,很显然作者把我们读者当白痴耍。难道我们的知识狭窄到连互联网最基本的运营模式都不懂吗?还是,作者本身的知识就超有限,以至于误解了马总的模式?就算后来与雅虎的种种摩擦显示了马总的矛盾;但,毕竟这是个残酷的商业环境。如果事事顺利,作者和我应该也很容易造就另一个阿里巴巴呗!简单来说,我觉得作者在马云这段一直在鸡蛋里挑骨头。而且,还跳得很细。重点是,需要吗?

腾讯小企鹅的分析更喷鼻。。。作者说:Google的强大却无法阻止Facebook的诞生和壮大,是因为Google没有把握住用户新的需求社会论。而Facebook却又未能阻止Twitter的发展。。。”GoogleFacebook拿来对比?没有更好的比喻吗?FacebookTwitter?谁先,谁后呢?呵呵。。。这样的解剖太误导读者了。。。

关于这本书到底是危言耸听还是真情解剖;老实说,见仁见智。我倒是觉得两样都有。整本书的本意是不错。错就错在主题好像给错了。“大危机”,其实还是段不能或不可预知的大危机。因此,整本书的所谓危机更像是作者预测中的危机。所以,整本书的意念虽不错,但主题真的起错了。

主题不谈,整本书的解剖倒是值得探讨的。。。作者这本沥血之作能给读者带来不少启示。比如柳总的接班人问题,王石个人形象大于企业效应,腾讯以抄袭和垄断为公司之本,王传福重量不重质等等都能够适当的给到我们应有的提示加提醒。所以,满分10分,我还是会给足8分。虽有些小瑕疵,但这是本值得一探究竟的书籍。

Monday, 30 September 2013

Syed Mokhtar Albukhary (A Biography)

I hardly touch local biography... However, this is a present from a friend. I appreciate the gift and as such, here I am with the stories on Tan Sri Syed Mokhtar Albukhary.

This is a thin book. (Less than 200 pages with pictures plus big wordings) As such, a full concentration in reading can complete the whole stories within 3 hours. Well, I am not saying this is a simplify biography. In fact, the author covered almost everything about Tan Sri. A good example is how the author traces Tan Sri’s ancestry back to the Afghania region and how they ended up settling in Malaya. That chapter although sounds dull in the first place. But, it is the details that complete the whole stories. In terms of this, I would say the author did a great job. Thumbs up!

After reading the stories, I think we are very much fortunate these days. Peoples like Tan Sri started in tougher environment. Yet, the local tycoon not only survived. In fact, he was so successful in every aspect. This is a story that inspires younger generation like me (Obviously, I am no more that young, LOL). As such, I am rating it at 8/10. Although a thin book, it serves its purpose and I hardly could find any flaws throughout the book. Big thanks to my buddy for presenting this book to me. Thanks, kawan. Appreciate it…

Friday, 27 September 2013

Fixed Odds Sports Betting

A betting book... A kind of book that I usually would avoid… After all, I am already in the biggest casino (and a worldwide casino too) that runs almost 24 hours each day. As such, I do not think I need to understand and explore further into more gambling stuff. But, this book is slightly different. It is a book about sports betting. To be precise, it is a book about football (my favorite) betting. As such, it attracted me at first glance…

End up; well, another disappointing book. There is not a lot of information on finding the edge in football betting. This book deals with various staking plans and show how each one performs over the long term. On its own, I believe it would not make you a successful gambler. So, for those looking high and low for the edge in football betting (including myself), this book is a real disappointment. Perhaps… the fact is: “Overround” imposed by each bookmaker did enough to diminish all the possible probabilities that contributed to certain edge. As such, there are simply zero chances in gaining the best possible edge!

Rating wise, I am so disappointed that I am only giving 2/10 for this book. The overall information given in the book is sufficient to understand the fixed odds of sports betting. However, since my intention is more on the above-mentioned, this book does not serve its purpose. As usual, this book was shifted out immediately after I finish the whole book. Ding, ding, ding… next, LOL!

Sunday, 22 September 2013

The Poker Face Of Wall Street

I love Aaron Brown's "Red Blooded Risk" so much... In fact, this is why I am back to one of his old book ~~  "The Poker Face of Wall Street"...

First of all, I must admit… I understand finance, but I have no prior knowledge of poker. As such, I began this book by downloading a poker game to play through and get familiar with it. So, when I thought I had gained enough knowledge (at least some basic rules) on poker, I moved on to this book. End up… confusions follows by confusions was the whole experiences in exploring this book.

Ok… I admit I am with the author when he said that market investing is as good as poker gambling. Examples of risk denials (fantastic examples too) were given in the book to validate the said opinion… But, I thought the author pointed out a lot of theories without supporting evidences. (Perhaps it was due to my ignorance?) At the end, this book although entertaining; but I get frustrated most of the time as it seems not easy to understand the highly technical arguments.


Rating wise… I could not hide my disappointment... and as such, I am rating it at 4/10. “Red Blooded Risk” is so fantastic and maybe that is the reason why I have a lot of expectations in this book. Overall, I would say the author started an interesting topic. However, I just do not know how to digest it. Final word: It deserved some attention (I really believe so…); but, it also needs some brilliant brain to unlock the gems inside this book… 

Monday, 16 September 2013

Hedge Fund Market Wizards

After so many years, Market Wizard series are still one of my favorites. The latest “Hedge Fund Market Wizards” was on my shelf since it was published and available in Malaysia market. Finally, I got time to sat down and enjoy this book. What a marvelous and excellent write up. Before I move on, allow me to rate this book at 10/10! Zero flaws and simply perfect!!!

This book reminds me on a lot of concepts and techniques that I personally experienced for the past 15 years. In fact, it is not only about good stuff. Those bad experiences and failure stories sound familiar too. End of the day, no matter which type of trader and which method you apply, the flow of the stories do not differentiate too much. It is the same old stories… stories with joy and pain along the way.

Final conclusion with 40 pieces of wisdoms is fantastic. Furthermore, it was nice to end with Zachary Schwanger (son of the author)’s thought on Market Wizard series. This is how the son rates his father: “My dad is one of the kindest, humblest, and most generous people I have ever come across. I would much rather be as great a person as he is than to be as successful as he is.” What a nice quote to end this book!  End of the day, life itself is not only about money, trading and successes. We have family, friends and lessons to support us in leading a meaningful life. I very much appreciate series of market wizard. It certainly helps in shaping what I am today. Thumbs up and well done once again to Jack D. Schwager!

Fantastic quotes from fellow traders:

Colm O’Shea:

Until I started my hedge fund, I believed in myself more than I believed in Warren Buffet.

I constantly getting in and out because I was scared of losing money. The rational trade hypothesis was beautiful. The implementation was entirely emotional and stupid. I realized that you have to embrace uncertainty and risk.

It took me a while to realize that those trading books are counterproductive because the rules are generic and not specific. Most trading books are designed for people who have the error of excess optimism and are in emotional denial of their losses. Trading books are designed to protect traders who are gamblers.

All the traders you write about have a method that is personal and fits them. You learn from everyone around you, but you have to do what make sense for you, even if it’s opposite of what makes sense for other people.

In those early days, I wasn’t setting stops at levels that made sense based on the underlying hypothesis for the trade; I was setting stops based on my pain threshold, and the market doesn’t care about your pain.

Trading skill can’t be taught, but it can be learned.

Perseverance and the emotional resilience to keep coming back are critical because as a trader you get beaten up horribly. Frankly, if you don’t love it, there are much better things to do with your life. You can’t trade if you think it is a way to make a lot of money.  

I think trading books that provide specific rules can be quite dangerous. They can lead to the illusion that you are in control and being disciplined. And it is true that you are restricting yourself from a single catastrophic loss, but it doesn’t prevent repeated losses on the same idea.

Ray Dalio:

In trading, you have to be defensive and aggressive at the same time. If you are not aggressive, you are not going to make money, and if you are not defensive, you are not going to keep money. I believe anyone who has made money in trading has had to experience horrendous pain at some point.

Diversification is the holy grail of investing.

We test our criteria to make sure that they are timeless and universal. Timeless means that we look at strategy during all different times, and universal means that we look at how a strategy worked in all different countries. There is no reason why a strategy’s effectiveness should change in different time periods or when you go from country to country.

Larry Benedict:

The growing influence of high frequency trading has changed the behavior of the market and has made it more difficult for someone like me who is a pure tape reader looking for clues in the market action.

One of the hard things about managing client money is that although I am very patient, the clients aren’t very patient.

Scott Ramsey:

The reality is that I am not being paid to be right. I am being paid to make money. Whenever I talk to my investors, I make it clear to them that whatever I say today about the markets may or may not reflect the positions I have tomorrow or the next day. I recently reviewed a presentation I gave about six months ago, and I realized that everything I had predicted didn’t happen- and yet, I made money in almost every month since then.

Jaffray Woodriff:

I started out using market-specific models. I ended up realizing that these models were far more vulnerable to breaking down in actual trading because they were more prone to being over fitted to the past data. In 1993, I started to figure out that the more data I used to train the models, the better the performance. I found that using the same models across multiple markets provided a far more robust approach. So the big chance that occurred during this period was moving from separate models for each market to common models applied across all markets.

Systems that work well across many markets are more likely to continue to work in actual trading than systems that do well in specific markets. The lesson is: Design systems that work broadly rather than market specific systems.

Edward Thorp:

If you have a really strong conviction about your edge, then the best thing to do is sit there and take your lumps. If however, you believe there is a reasonable chance that you might not have an edge, then you better have a safety mechanism that constrains your losses on drawdowns. My view on trend following was that I could never be sure that I had an edge, so I wanted a safety mechanism.

Jamie Mai:

We are comfortable losing 100 percent of our premium four times in a row, as long as we believe that a 25 times payout is likely to occur if we make the same bet 10 times consecutively.

Michael Platt:

If the market is going up today, your forecast is going to be that it will continue going up because it is how you feel at the moment that is the most important thing. Today becomes how you felt in the past because you misremember. So, everything is about today. In this sense, financial markets become self-referential.

That’s the type I want ~ someone who understands an edge. Analysts, on the other hand, don’t think about anything else other than how smart they are.

The problem always comes down to ego. You find that analysts and economists have big egos, which just gets in the way of making money because they can never admit they are wrong.

I hate losing money more than anything. It’s the fact that it messes up your psychology. You lose the bullets in your gun. You feel like an idiot, and you are not in the mood to put on anything else. Then the elephant walks past you while your gun’s not loaded. It’s amazing how annoyingly often that happens. In this game, you want to be there when the great trade comes along. It’s the 80/20 rule of life. In trading, 80 percent of your profits come from 20 percent of your ideas.

In this game, you have an option to keep 20% of your P&L this year, but you also want to own the serial option of being able to do that every year. You can’t be blowing up.

When queried about systematic trend following, Platt mentioned two key factors. First, their system will liquidate positions when trends get overextended without waiting for trend reversal signals. Second, there is continuous ongoing research and implementation of changes to improve the system. System trading is a dynamic rather than static process. In Platt’s words, system trading is a research war.

Steve Clark:

Charts are simply the record of how things have traded in the past. That’s it. I am not a big believer in chart analysis. It is extremely appealing to think that you can take a data set from the past and predict what will happen in the future…To say that you can predict the future from past data is patently untrue. You can talk about percentage probabilities of what might happen next, but you can’t go any further than that.

Let me tell you the trouble with trading. There is no career in trading. You are only as good as your last trade, and that is it. You build nothing; you just trade. The day you stop trading, it’s gone. So, what you have spent doing for X hours every working day of your life has ended, and there is nothing left to show for it, except for money.

Being a trader was fun, and you could walk away. But, when you have business, you can’t walk away. So, it becomes prison in some ways, whereas being a trader was very free.

I found it was critical to find things to involve yourself in. It is a very good thing to be busy when you are a prop trader because you don’t want to have much time to stare at the screen… Once you have positions on and are waiting for the market to do what it needs to do, what are you going to do in the interim? Staring at the price is not going to tell you very much. You will start to overprocess and overtrade.

Some traders will change while their one trick is still working and destroy it. You need to be a bit obsessive to do the same thing 10 hours a day. People who are obsessive can become very good traders.

The market is not about facts. It’s all about people’s opinion and positions. Consequently, anything can be at any price, any time. Once you understand that, you realize you need to have protective stops.

Martin Taylor:

If someone comes to you and says they only invest in risky assets, but guarantee you limited downside volatility, they are either extraordinary geniuses – and they are probably only two of them on the planet – or they are liars.

I am trying to get away from that tyranny in hedge funds: monthly performance… You end up in this situation where you are obsessed with monthly returns, which can influence poor long-term investment decisions…I am trying to stop caring about what my clients think. I want to continue to invest money the same way but have the freedom to take a longer view.

We have never had and would never use any form of quantitative risk control because all quantitative risk control models use historical volatility. It is like driving by looking in the rearview mirror. If you use volatility as a guideline, and volatility suddenly increases, you will – Doh!

RSI doesn’t work as an overbought indicator because stocks can remain overbought for a very longtime. But, a stock being extremely oversold is usually an acute phenomenon that lasts for only a few weeks.

You need to understand what you invested. If you don’t understand why you are in trade, you won’t understand when it is the right time to sell, which means you will only sell when the price action scares you. Most of the time, when the price action scares you, it is a buying opportunity, not a selling indicator.

I consider my pattern of taking quick profits in 2009 a dreadful error that I think came about because I had lost a degree of confidence due to experiencing my first down year in 2008, even though the loss was consistent with the expected loss given the magnitude of the market decline.

Tom Claugus:

The responsibility of having other people’s money really weighs on me. If you have a 10 year time horizon, you can make good decisions and make a lot of money. If you have three year time horizon, you could probably still do well. But if you have only a three month horizon, anything can happen.

Just because you made money doesn’t mean you are right, and just because you lost money doesn’t mean you are wrong. It is all a matter of probabilities.

There are many reasons why airlines are widely considered to be poor investments. They are capital intensive, they are people intensive; they are difficult to manage; they have to rely on inefficient government air traffic control system; and if, despite all of that, they ever manage to make money, the unions start asking for more wages, so they don’t make money then, either.

Trading is a matter of probabilities. Any trading strategy, no matter how effective, will be wrong a certain percentage of time… A good trade can lose money, and a bad trade can make money. A good trade follows a process that will be profitable if repeated multiple times, although it can lose money on any individual trade. A bad trade follows a process that will lose money if repeated multiple times, although it can lose money on any individual trade.

Joe Vidich:

Most people are afraid of making money than losing money.

The next time you are undecided between liquidating a losing position and gritting your teeth and riding it out, remember that there is third alternative: partial liquidation.

If you are going to control your losses, there will be times when you will get out just before the market turns around. Get used to it. This frustrating experience is an unavoidable consequence of effective risk management.

Kevin Daly:

I have seen managers who did so well while trading smaller asset levels, but then experienced significant performance deterioration when they allowed their assets to grow beyond the optimal level for their methodology. For managers, the discipline to turn down additional investor assets when they believe it would impede their performance is an important element in longer-term success.

Jimmy Balodimas:

The beliefs have always kept me making money and not playing the short term moves that I don’t really trust. The markets are such a greater fool’s game. I don’t want to be the greater fool.

All I think about is making money, not being right.

Joel Greenblatt:

If I wrote a book about a strategy that worked every month, or even every year, everyone would start using it, and it would stop working. The market doesn’t always agree with you… over the short term, which sometimes can be as long as two to three years, there are periods when it doesn’t work.


People don’t fully appreciate the importance of not losing money. Negative compounding is very difficult to overcome. 

Sunday, 8 September 2013

活出全新的自己

即上一本【遇见未知的自己】后,我再接再厉继续探讨张德芬老师这本书籍。如果上一本讲的是理论,这一本探讨的完全是实战。。。怎样战胜自己的身,心,灵三大面向。如作者所说,这本着重于『治疗』。因此,这本可以说是上一本的完结篇。(至少是新马专属的完结篇吧。。。)

老样子,还是花了不多时间就啃完了整本书。。。始终,小说怎样都容易消化。而且,这本书里的“实战治疗”也太吸引人了。作者很巧妙的利用一些蛮简单(却特有效)的方法来帮助读者。整个“治疗”过程没有一般同类书籍般的神秘。方法就是你我都很容易上手的一些治疗法。简单来说,作者是做到了如何帮助我们“活出全新的自己”。

最后。。。关于黄庭和禅的用处,我个人还真的受益不浅。对于一个容易爆发情绪的狂躁人,我还真的发觉那篇黄庭的细说帮了我不少忙。原来,心态的少许改变真的能帮我们更好的面对身体一些既来之,则安之的状态。黄庭老弟。。。从今天开始,我终于懂得如何接受,战胜,及和你荣辱共处了。哈。。。

张德芬老师这本书真的开拓我不少视野。比起上一本的理论,我还是比较接受这本的实战。更何况,这本的印刷完全没问题(哈哈)。所以,十分满分,我给足九分。扣掉的一份,纯粹因为我不完全同意里面一小部分的论点。但,因个人对于心理学并不精通。所以,我肯定不是最好的评论者。扣掉的一小分纯粹是个人的狭隘见识(跟作者的功力完全无关)。整体来说,这类书我虽不太推荐(【有钱人的偏方】害的,呵呵),但如果你好久没看这类型的书籍,张老师这本【活出全新的自己】肯定是首选。

以下是一些经典语录:

这个世界你所看见的人,事,物,都是你内在的一种反射。只要你自己的内心改变了,外在就会随之改变。

你的感觉是来来去去的。快乐的时候,你还是你;悲伤的时候,你的内在也是有一个不变的东西在经历它。

当有负面情绪时,这时候最重要的是把注意力放在自己内在,而不是放在那些引起你负面情绪的人,事,物上。

观察情绪最简单的方法就是去观察你的身体。因为情绪其实就是身体对你思想的一个反应,只不过有的时候你还没觉察到思想,情绪就起来了。

观察自己有一点要注意的是,千万不要批判自己,或是为自己的情绪辩护,甚至为自己的行为自圆其说。

哭泣和欢笑是一体的。你丢弃了一面,另一面也会被丢弃的。

如果你能与自己的负面感受安然共处,那么你就会有足够的内在力量,可以更有效地去因应外在你不喜欢的人,事,物。

你现在面临的人生问题,都是旧伤浮现的结果,它们是来帮助你疗愈的。

宽恕是最重要的特质,因为原谅别人,就等于原谅自己。

你是一切情境的创造者,所以当你看到自己编造出来的各种人生戏码和剧情时,别忘了给自己一些鼓励。

用平等心来感受你黄庭的起伏震荡,不要附加任何想法或价值判断上去。它只是我们身体上自然的气机震荡。怎么来,这么去。

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

遇见未知的自己

好久没看这类型的书籍。。。老实说,个人对于这一类的书籍其实兴趣不大。理由是,我很赞成『有钱人的偏方』所说的~~~有些东西就是不能太依靠它(不然,以后你就需要找更强力,更高深的“偏方”)。所以,自从好多年前的『秘密』,『吸引力法则』后(还有一大堆陈安之,李践的轰炸,哈),这类书籍我是尽量避开的。。。但是,张德芬老师这本新马专属的全新改版出现的也恰好。这一年半载来,读了太多正经的书籍。心灵上,好像挺需要一些调味剂。于是,在大众翻了又翻,最后决定把这本书,联同『活出全新的自己』给买下。

几年才翻一翻这类的书籍,理应是还好的。但,如以上所说的;整体上就是觉得“不够力”。感觉很多道理都是听了再听,读了又读,就还是那些大道理。所以,这本书我读得特快。感觉蛮有意思,但不完全能够触动心灵。。。

别误会,我不是说张老师写的不好。老实说,能以轻松小说的方式来呈现身,心,灵三个面向的探讨实属不简单。读者读得轻松,却也引起不少慎思。结果,张老师是做到了她拟写这本书的目的。只不过,如果你惯性的看过这类书籍,火花肯定不大!

再来,都说是新马专属的全新改版。。。所以,应该有些特别的地方吧。不过,根据一位内地读者,其实都没什么分别。最糟糕的是,里头有一页是空的;(怎么搞的????)而空的那一页恰恰又是整个故事的重点。(我在别的版本查阅了)好纳闷哦!

评分方面,我个人其实挺喜欢这本书的。里头的重复性(相对于其它类似书籍)虽有,但还真的起到一定的提醒作用。(都说了,这类书籍只要不要时常阅读,它的效果还是有的。)最后,作者小说式的写法还真的替读者增添了不少的阅读乐趣。10分满分,就给个6分吧。以上的小缺点及印刷问题真的掩盖了作者的功力。可惜,可惜。。。

以下是个人认为值得一看再看,再而慎思的经典语录:

若用否定法来看『你是谁』这个问题,你觉得自己不是谁?

快乐取决于外在的东西,那么一旦那个令你快乐的情境或事物不存在了,你的快乐也就随之消失了。而喜悦不同,它是由内向外,从你内心深处油然而生的。所以你一旦拥有了它,外界是夺不走的。

好的能量和负的能量一样,都有很强的传播力和影响力。

性格倾向x外在环境x各种教育x生活事件x前世业力(如果你信的话)=人生模式。

你不是你的工作,你不是你的表现,你不是你的成功,也不是你的失败。这些外在的东西,丝毫动摇不到你那个内在的自我。

留一份注意力在自己身上,其他的注意力放在此刻正在发生的事情上,你会发现,这样可以让你更容易地活在当下。

无论你多么爱他,多余的担心就是最差的礼物,不如给他祝福吧!

一些天生的恐惧,所求不得的愤怒,希望落空的悲伤,都只是生命能量的自然流动而已,它会来,就一定会走。

我们人会受苦的最大原因,就是抗拒事实。

接受了这么多的『理想』和『应该』,我们于是产生了很多的信念,价值观,态度,标准来约束自己,也来衡量,批判他人。可是我们从来不去检测我们思想的正确性。

当你对某一个人特别有意见,特别看不顺眼的时候,就是一种自我的投射行为,也是一种逃避策略。其实,他们的那些缺点你都有,只是不承认罢了。

没有任何一件事情可以造成心理上的痛苦。痛苦是来自于你对事情的解释而造成了痛苦。

负面的情绪就像黑暗一样,你是驱散不走它们的。你唯一可以做的,就是带进光来。

凡是你抗拒的,都会持续。因为当你抗拒某件事情或某种情绪的时候,你会聚焦在那个情绪或事件上,这样就赋予它更多的能量,它就更强大了。

越向外抓取,我们就离我们的中心,也就是『真我』越来越远。这就是为什么人人都在追求幸福快乐,但是真正幸福,快乐的人却那么少?