Friday, 31 March 2017

Leading

I hate Manchester United... but, I admire Sir Alex from the bottom of my heart. As an Arsenal fan, I have to admit that Sir Alex's record was so incredible that football fans around the world will find this book a real gem.

Compares to "Alex Ferguson - My Autobiography" and the earlier "Football- Bloody Hell", this book is seen as something completely different. In this book, Sir Alex talked about his role, importance and essence of leadership that brought a curtain down to his amazing career. The previous biography focuses on football and produced while he was still actively involved with the Red Devils. This book gave insight on how he managed to succeed in life. The added point appeared when the book itself featured a lot of football related content. So, as a maniac football fan, this book certainly brings a lot of pleasure in reading it.

Although it was intended to present in more "management" style, this book clearly revealing some of the interesting point about the great man. Readers will read about Sir Alex's crazy obsession with football. We are presented with a man who is willing to sacrifices family and personal life for the sake of glory in football. Furthermore, the man himself revealed a lot of his human being's general weaknesses and errors. The two significant one was his churning feeling in his stomach before the game and how he makes decisions with imperfect information. After all, he is the human being like me and you. However, he just has the determination and hard work to solve the puzzle.

The only flaw in this biography perhaps lies with the facts that it was mean to combine football with the management skill in general and leadership in particular. At times, I finding it hard to concentrate as my mind was mingled between football stuff versus management skill. Well, the creativity in combining management skill into the great man's mind was the selling point of this book. Yet, the confusion arose due to the same attractive point too. Fair enough? Ha...

In my last review on "Sir Alex- My Autobiography", I mentioned that the said book could be a complete journey reviewing for the great man. Out of surprise, this book provides more insightful information on how his great experiences can transform into any part of our life. Hence, despite a small flaw as mentioned above, I have no hesitation to rate this book at 10/10. With such a great book, I have to spend more time to list out some great quotes from the great man as below. These quotes will certainly help me and you towards a better future.

We're all accidental victims of our parents' DNA; we are shaped by the luck of the draw, the circumstances in which we grew up and the education we received. But we all have two sets of very powerful tools that we completely control; our eyes and our ears. Watching others, listening to their advice and reading about people are three of the best things I ever did.

Very often our victories were squeaked out in the last few minutes, after we had drained the life from our opponents. Games like life - are all about waiting for the chances and then pouncing on them.

It would not surprise me if some observers feel that much of United's success was due to our willingness to take unnecessary chances. I never thought like this because part of a leader's job is to eliminate as many risks as possible. Some might think that my fondness for horses or cards means that I am a gambler at heart, but that isn't really true. In my private life, I have always been very careful about the amount of money I am prepared to spend on a horse or bet at race-track, and the same caution applied at old trafford. We tried to leave nothing to chance. I cannot tell you how many half-time talks centered on the need to be patient and wait for the right opportunity to occur, rather than be dare devils. 

Our critics would say this was lucky, or down to the pressure to extend the game into "Fergie Time", but in truth it came down to careful preparation and having a deliberate and thoughtful approach to risk.

It makes it far tougher to sell the dream of the future if you cannot point to the staff and facilities that will make it come true.

You don't have to love your players or your management team, but you do need to respect their abilities.

Some managers try to be popular with the players and become one of the boys. It never work. As a leader, you don't need to be loved, though it is useful, on occasion, to be feared. But, most of all, you need to be respected. 

Jock was right that you cannot get too attached to people who work for you. The only time you must have that attachment is when they are in trouble- when they need your advice.

Complacency can often start seeping into an organisation that has had a string of triumphs. 

The questions going through the back of my mind during any celebration were, "How do we top this? How do we get another triumph?" I never wanted us to be torpedoed by complacency.

I gradually learned that there was no point beating about the bush by taking somebody out for dinner or sending his wife a box of chocolates or flowers to try and soften the news. The gimmicks don't change the message. If you have decided you are going to get rid of someone, nothing beats honesty.

I found that helpful ideas would sometimes pop into my mind from out of nowhere while I was playing cards or reading a book or going through a wine catalog. I am sure the same sensation occurs to other leaders when they are riding their bikes, pruning their roses or climbing a mountain.

If we had 3pm kick off, I would give team talk between 1:15pm and 1:45pm. Once I had delivered my piece I would leave the players alone. We had prepared as best we could and last minute instructions always leave players wondering whether they command the manager's confidence.

Maybe some people, before a big performance or important encounter, try to calm their nerves with breathing exercises or a draw of whisky, but I never did so. I just accepted that nagging anxiety as part of my job. It accompanied me through life and it would have been a big warning sign that I was no longer up for the task that had anxiety - which really was a sign of how badly I wanted to win-ever disappeared. 

If you have command and control of your subject, you don't need notes. No player is going to believe that someone is in control of his materials, or is an authority on a subject, if he has to keep resorting to notes. I relied on my memory and my own assessment and, that way, when I was talking to the players, I was able to maintain eye contact. 

As much as it's essential to maintain eye contact when talking to a small group of people, I always found it disconcerting to catch someone's eye when speaking in front of a big room. I tended to look towards the audience because I knew that staring at notes on a lectern is one sure way to lose a crowd's attention. However, I never looked at any particular individual. Instead I's pick a spot at the back of the room slightly above the heads of the audience. 

Everyone is disposable. Someone once said, 'Graveyards are full of indispensable men,' and it's a phrase worth dwelling on. 

When you are in the football world, and I suspect in almost every other setting, you have to make decisions with the information at your disposal, rather that what you wish you might have. I never had a problem reaching a decision based on imperfect information. That's just the way the world works.

There are probably only two times to do so - too early or too late. If I was going to err on making one of those mistakes, I far preferred to make the decision earlier rather later.

Any leader is a salesman- and he has to sell to the inside of his organisation and to the outside. Anyone who aspires to be a great leader needs to excel at selling his ideas and aspirations to others.

There's never been as much money in Scottish football as in English; early on in my career I got used to making the most from a little. I happen to think that's a useful discipline for any business or organisation, because it's so easy to waste money.

The inequity seems even more pronounced when you consider that, compared to other people, a footballer's peak earning years are very abbreviated - usually about six years and almost always fewer than ten. Don't tell me that some 28 year old who can manipulate a spreadsheet (of which there are hundreds of thousands, maybe millions) deserves to be paid more than a midfielder playing for Swansea City or Southampton.

I suspect most football managers get paid less- sometimes far less- than their start players. What message does it send to a team, if most of them are being paid more than their boss?

It wasn't the end of the world if we failed in a particular negotiation and that our success was not going to hinge on the arrival of one player. If you need one person to change your destiny, then you have not built a very solid organisation. 

I'm sometimes amazed by how people get fixated on information. It's like standing in a hospital room staring at the numbers on the bedside monitors while the patient chokes to death on a chicken sandwich. You have to consider the human element of life and the way that circumstances and chance can upset everything - even the most accurate and clearly reported data. Knowing the heart rate of a player and doing all the video analysis in the world of his opposite number isn't going to help you if he loses control and gets sent off in the first minute. 

Stealth and secrecy are two valuable weapons for any organisation. 

You never stop building - if you do, you stagnate. I always used to say, "The bus is moving; make sure you are on it, don't be left behind."

There is no point suddenly changing routines that players are comfortable with. It is counterproductive, saps morale, and immediately provokes players to question the new man's motive... My message about alcohol would have been more effective if I had just quietly gone about getting rid of one of the players who had the wrong priorities. In the end, it took a long time to eradicate the drinking habit. But, after I sold some of the main culprits, people could see I was not just full of hot air and things slowly started to improve. 

Friday, 17 March 2017

The Manager: Inside the Minds of Football's Leaders

After series of "serious" reading, time is just right for some relaxing stuff...

Ended up... what a boring book!!! In the first place, football is all about excitement and passionate. However, with the addition of management stuff, it suddenly overturns the whole thing into something rigid and boring. My intention to read this book is to get some relax mind after a hectic month. Ended up, the author forced me to think hard and squeeze my mind into more serious stuff (which I do not want at all, haha...).

Secondly, as usual with any sorts of football books, readers are more keen on the inside stories and incidents behind the scenes. This book is rather different. It focuses on the management skill before inserting all quotes from managers to emphasize on his management theories. At the end, it was all in the mess. Apart from the usual management skill, I found nothing interesting on my beloved football.

Thirdly, I personally think that it will be much better if each chapter had focused on a single manager. The title itself already told us that this is a book about managers. To me, it is more a book about the collective part or similarity among managers.  A misleading title? Definitely....

Finally, I browse through the background of the author. It seems that the author is not a traditional football author. He is more on the management side which deals with organisations and peoples. Hence, from the perspective of football fans, the author may not know what we want from a footballing books. At the same time, those who are keen on management stuff may not be so passionate about football too...

All in all, the book may be a decent read if you are looking for some management stuff in general with leadership in particular. For football fans like me, it is a huge disappointment. As such, I have no hesitation to rate this book at 2/10. It is out of my expectations and it is not the book I want in the first place... 

Friday, 10 March 2017

西藏生死书

这本书我想看很久了。理由有几个。第一,我非常向往有宗教信仰的一天。自小,我一直活在没有真正宗教信仰的国度里。第二,我是一个好奇心很重的人。对于不明白的事,总想打破沙锅问到底。宗教这个很玄的东西留下来太多谜团。因此,很想好好的研究一下这方面的领域。第三,对于圣经和古兰经我是非常熟悉的。但是,这两大宗教的历史背景造成我对于宗教始终抱着观望的态度。简单来说,这两本伟大的书籍尽管伟大,却始终打动不到我。第四,随着年龄的增长,总觉得需要一些心灵上的填补。因此,很向往有个宗教能让我不那么理性的去看待它。

结果。。。真抱歉!尽管这本书的本意是对的,尽管作者很努力的拟写了一本堪称可以和圣经,古兰经比拟的上等之作,本人就是没办法融入里头的世界。老实说,这本书的道理都对。但是,我就是没有办法领悟到里头的精髓。或许这么说,心灵上我需要宗教,但是忙忙碌碌的生活相对的比宗教重要的多了。

这本书让我想起了张德芬老师的【舍得让你爱的人受苦】。其实,张德芬老师在书里也时常提起这本书籍。但是,我读张德芬老师的书可是读的很投入。换回这本书,总觉得纳闷多了。也许,我惯性的很理性去阅读每一本书。因此,阅读张老师的书籍我很容易接受。毕竟,她的书没有太多玄妙和深奥的道理,有的只是现实生活中你我都会遇到的小故事。而,这本【西藏生死书】虽不难理解,但是玄秘的地方还真不少。这时,如果一切以理性为主,读者很难投入这本伟大书籍的真正奥妙。

10分满分,这本书我只打个2分。或许,十年后我会更加懂得欣赏这类书籍。